Raped by a woman: They ask ‘why didn’t I like it’


WARNING: This video series has graphic descriptions of rape, sexual violation, substance abuse and discusses suicide and self-harm. It is recommended for adult audiences only.

Josh’s remembers yelling over and over for her to stop. But she didn’t. When Josh tells people about his alleged rape he has to deal with questions like: ‘how a 6 foot 3 guy could be raped’ or ‘why I didn’t like it’.

‘Let’s take the gender out of it. Trauma is trauma.’

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One in six boys will be sexually abused before they are 18.  In this video series, 10 men have told their stories to Challenge the Silence on the issue. All grew up believing they were the only ones it had happened to. Now, they want other victims to know they are not alone and, if they are ready, help is there for them.

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